What the term “You Only Live Once” is to us is simple what we choose to make it. Most of us are rats mindlessly running in the rat race called life. Some of us perform well; most of us are trampled. Pursuing our calling remains a dream for most. Passion hardly ever breaks away from being limited to a hobby, that too one we struggle to take time out for. When the going gets bleak, it is this very term that instils the zeal in people to make more of their life. It makes people want to live life a little more, rather than just bide it away.
And a large part of that means to be able to live life on our own terms, as well. Often we are too occupied in being what others want us to be, rather than just being what we want. Living a fulfilling and happy life is intricately subjective and has an expansive scope of ideation. While screaming in the first row of a Metallica concert might be the way to ecstasy for one, listening to Dire Straits in a quiet living room might be the avenue to bliss for another. Learning? Be yourself as much as you can and do not allow others to drive what you can and cannot do since it's your life (as Bon Jovi would testify) and, indeed, you only live once. They told Ludwig van Beethoven that he could not be a musician as he was deaf, but he didn’t listen, did he?
In the present day, leaving jobs and pursuing something liberating full time remains a luxury that few of us can afford. For the rest, YOLO simply means breaking away from the chains of routine and experiencing something that is the flesh and bone of how we wanted to live life. We allow our every day to be so streamlined that we often forget the palette of the bright, vivid colours that await us only if we could be bold and brave enough to take that one decision. That one choice opted, that one alternative explored. It makes all the difference.
“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough”
- Mae West
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sanjeev sah
IIM Ranchi ll Worked as Engineer with Design and Optimization Tools at Ericsson
Excellent thoughts!!
11 Jan 2019, 11.27 AM